I personally know gay couples with ten-, fifteen-, twenty-, and twenty-five-year age differences. So a longterm relationship between a year-old Daddy and a gay boy in his twenties isn't impossible. But by telling yourself it's impossible, DADDY, you've made it impossible—not for everyone, just for you. The actor and author Stephen Fry is married to a man thirty years his junior; author Armistead Maupin is married to a man 27 years his junior.
But first you have to let yourself believe it's possible.
Please note: You can't spend the "final third" of your life with a guy in his twenties without that guy aging into his thirties and then his forties and then his fifties. Beautiful boys stop hearts, not clocks. If there's no way you could ever be attracted to someone who isn't eternally 24—someone who isn't a gay vampire who sucks cock and never ages—then you should continue doing what you're doing: Look for us at the back table with the GYO flag donation box https: We meet looking for comradery and friendship. Also watch for announcements on FaceBook , Twitter , Meetup.
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This is a pre-announcement to let you know that we are in the planning stages for an April GYO meetup. Watch for an official date in the next week. Everyone wants to know what the best site is for older guys to meet younger guys.
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It is reassuring to know there are more out there like us. I have a right to be with whom I am happy with right? I love with all my heart my partner of only three months who is 30 years younger than me. He is 26 and I am I hope there will be many many more. Please tell me what we should not do wrong? I am 32 years older than my partner. Yes, it is more important to be with the one who makes us happy.
My partner is much older than me. Is our relationship unsustainable?
And yes, we are burdened by the several side effects created by society. I wish we could really share with each other our experiences. I need someone to talk to about all of this. Will soon celebrate my or our 8th anniversary with a partner 22 years younger than me. We have an amazing trusting fulfilling relationship. Sure we heard all the negative and tasteless remarks, but chose to ignore them. I was coming out of a 40 plus year marriage to my wife when I met a 30 year old guy on Grindr.
There is a 31 year age difference between us. We have been dating for about one year.
As the older person in the relationship it brings me excitement, passion and the ability to mentor and guide someone that I have come to love. At first I was very bothered by the age difference. However, my partner repeatedly has told me and I know totally agree that age is a state of mind. I keep myself in great shape and am able to keep up with my young friend in every way..
We complement each other in so many ways. He is learning about finance and politics and I am learning about his generation, his music and am able to view our joint lives through his eyes. Are there obstacles? Do I worry about what happens when I am 75 and he is 44? The first being my wife of 21 years of marriage. We are currently going through a divorce. He is everything I am not, sexy, outgoing, vibrant. I see in him a soul I want to fully embrace. Before I turned my phone off I texted a friend of ours he was with.
Friend in this case being the guy we both want a threesome with, and maybe invite into our relationship. Both of us believe in polyamorous relationships. It is a confusing state of affairs, and most people tell me to dump him. He also gets resistance from his friends and family. I personally like the gawking, stares, and stuff we get in public. The ltr I had was with a guy 30years older than me, we were in love but sadly on the 3rd year he died suddenly. I would love too have a long term relationship a guy 30 years younger than me, but all I have experienced is gold diggers.
Tom Johnson. I know I can choose who I date. I chose to date a man 13 years younger than me. Labels should not matter if you are secure and confident in what you have with someone. And you just have to be really understanding and patient. I guess if you love someone then that should already be a given. If they start feeling that way, then they will slowly drift away from you. John Stephen. Hello Will Glad I found your web site. It was refreshing to realise that I am not alone in my view that we should be able to choose. Mine is a somewhat odd story in that I married young and only learned later that I was bisexual when I fell for a lovely young man.
Regretfully he did not reciprocate my love although we remained good friends for over a year. Thgis non-relationship caused me to have a nervous breakdown. My wife was none too pleased either. Several gay flings followed. Six years ago my wife passed away after we had brought 4 daughters into the world I now also have 6 grandchildren — one of whom is lesbian. I have been searching for a young gay man for a long time. In Septemeber I will be 76 so am beginning to realise it might never happen. I now live a lonely life and put all my efforts into an expanding postal business which I started 42 years ago.
Oh how I long for a young man — just someone to cuddle and for companionship. I guess I have served my purpose in life but still have many regrets. Sincere good wishes John. I have been in two long term relationships with a 20 and 25 year younger then me guys. It can happen to the younger guy. To me it really is not an issue. Successful inter-generational relationships are more common than many people realize.
The pros and cons of younger/older relationships – Gay San Diego
About eight or nine years ago a friend of mine introduced me to the Silverdaddies site. I was on it for two or three years and for the most part I met very nice younger men only one gold digger in the lot, but he was the sexiest LOL. He was German and lives in Munich. I immediately booked a ticket to meet him and we have been together ever since. I must admit, I moved to Germany to be with him, but since I have no family left and am economically independent, I was able to make the transition.
The pros and cons of younger/older relationships
I have even learned to speak German, one of the many pluses of being open to something new. But the real point of this posting is, since getting together with Thomas I have become aware of just how many intergenerational couples there are out there. Maybe there are more in Europe and the UK than in the states, but we are constantly running into them in restaurants, or when we travel, or at the theater. I can recommend the Silverdaddies site as a good tool; as I say, most of the young men I met were worthwhile but none of them quite did it for me or I for them until I met the right one.
So I just want to add these comments to encourage other older men not to assume nobody wants them.